tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7174614013687267341.post454893646184858568..comments2023-06-14T22:31:07.728+08:00Comments on Past Tense: Premarital screening.Afifah Azmihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15908474278153897607noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7174614013687267341.post-10863073064012316112010-09-14T22:53:32.990+08:002010-09-14T22:53:32.990+08:00(^_^)v(^_^)vAfifah Azmihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15908474278153897607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7174614013687267341.post-41882907232549973532010-09-14T22:46:36.067+08:002010-09-14T22:46:36.067+08:00Wakaka... PreCouple screening? Mcm menarik je... h...Wakaka... PreCouple screening? Mcm menarik je... hahaha.. Nice ideas also... (^_^)vAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7174614013687267341.post-7652806854847244092010-09-14T22:01:50.845+08:002010-09-14T22:01:50.845+08:00aaa, there's one more thing I need to add up. ...aaa, there's one more thing I need to add up. What I meant by preCOUPLE screening is before you have some kind of relationship with someone you can or should ask that someone about the thalessemia thingy. Yelah kan baru nak kenal kenal, takde feeling feeling lagi so if you already know that YOU ARE A CARRIER, why not ask that someone awal awal sebelum that relationship become more serious and things become more complicated. That's my opinion la.. because you know you are the carrier.Afifah Azmihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15908474278153897607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7174614013687267341.post-58850293621367711782010-09-14T21:36:57.936+08:002010-09-14T21:36:57.936+08:00Yes ezad. I got ur point. Memang kita tak patut ha...Yes ezad. I got ur point. Memang kita tak patut halang dorang ntuk kahwin, in fact we dont have the right to do so. That's why I suggest buat preCOUPLE screening (kalau wujud) so that dorang takdelah merana di kemudian hari. Just imagine dorang da plan ntuk kahwin bertahuntahun but in the end dorang tau dorang adalah carrier (I didnt mention a word about thal patient cos they are well informed that they have thal so they are mentally and physically prepared for evrything regarding thal I suppose, not like the carrier cos they are asymptomatic). Some maybe didnt bother about it at all but still, they have to do something about it like u said, pegi genetic kaunseling for the sake of their offspring.<br /><br />And yes, thal patient didnt deserve discrimination tapi bak kata Dr Hamidah dorang perlukan pembelaan. But what I'm trying to say is that dorang perlu ambil langkah berjaga jaga so that takde complication in the future thats why I did write 'silalah buat premarital screening before meneruskan rancangan kahwin'. Maybe the screening result will change something in their life and they will have better plan and preparation to build a family. Thats all.. heheh ^_^Afifah Azmihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15908474278153897607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7174614013687267341.post-87418419072731622502010-09-14T20:48:50.115+08:002010-09-14T20:48:50.115+08:00Referring to your 2nd last paragraph.. =)
Hurm......Referring to your 2nd last paragraph.. =)<br /><br />Hurm... Actually, untuk mengatakan/mencadangkan tidak/jangan berkahwin kepada orang yang mempunyai penyakit thalessemia tu mcm kejam sgt bunyinya... As a doctor-to-be, bukan kita yang menentukan masa depan mereka... Kita membimbing mereka untuk memahami penyakit ini... Boleh je untuk mereka berkahwin, tapi perlu langkah berjaga2... Advice mereka untuk pergi ke genetic counseling... I agree tujuan utama berkahwin untuk mendapat zuriat... Tapi hanya itu je ke tujuan berkahwin? Bukan hak kita untuk mendeskriminasi mereka... Adakah kita mempertikaikan kejadian Allah? Bukan juga mereka meminta musibah ini terjadi kepasa mereka... Sesungguhnya Allah itu Maha Mengetahui...<br /><br />Word of advice: Ikut sunnah nabi... Kahwin dgn org jauh2... <br /><br />P/s: I've got many friends especially girl yang ada penyakit thalassemia ni (as thal. carrier and thal. minor)... Agaknya, ape perasaan mereka? <br /><br />Just sharing my views... Sorry if ada tersalah kata or tersinggung hati.. =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com